"There but for the grace of God go I...." How often have you heard someone say this, when seeing or hearing of someone less fortunate, someone in trouble, someone who's messed up their life?
What does it mean? It means that I could easily be there where they are, except for God's grace which has kept me out of that situation.
And what follows from this, is the unspoken conclusion: God's grace hasn't been there to keep them out of the situation.
Does this mean that His grace is selective -- it chooses some and not others? He gives grace to some and leaves others in the dirt? That He might be everywhere, but doesn't always take a supply of grace along? Spelled out like that, what do you think? Is this what you believe?
How about this idea instead:
God gives his best—the sun to warm and the rain to nourish—to everyone, regardless: the good and bad, the nice and nasty. Matthew 5:45 MSG.
Read Hugh Hollowell's post on this subject.